For 1. the Stop (and variants) messages should go through an Architect flow for Short Codes:
Genesys Cloud does not route HELP and INFO messages for long codes or toll-free numbers, but does route these messages for short codes. Genesys Cloud attempts to route all other opt-out keywords. If you don't want these messages routed to agents, then you can configure your message flow in Architect to filter out these messages. Use the decision action to check the contents of the message using the Message.Message.Body variable.
I haven't found a way for 2. yet
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George Ganahl GCCX-AI, GCP, GCSME
Technical Adoption Champion
Genesys
2024 Community Member of the Year
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